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Wednesday, December 16, 2015

Holiday Gift Guide

The holiday season has arrived, and if you're anything like me you like to get your holiday shopping done early. The key word here is, like. I like to get it done early. Some years it happens, some years, it don't. 

If this is a year that 'it don't', I've got you covered. 

Let's start with those oh so cute little kiddies, for whom the excitement of Christmas is palpable. 


 

 

 



The guys in our life love us unconditionally and we should treat them to something special every once in a while. So here is my list of something special for these amazing men



 






And for mom? The world. But if you can't afford that, then some of these might do...






For the coolest gal in your life, the coolest gift...
 


Blanket Sweater (say whaaat?!) / DSLR Camera / Hunter boots / Rocksbox  / Cosmetic Case

Home & Host : To bring to your next holiday soirée 

In the Spirit of Giving The real essence of the holidays though, is helping others - those who are less fortunate and those who need positive vibes and holiday cheer. 

Send a card or letter to a member of our armed forces or a veteran / Christmas Kindness Calendar / Donate Food or Clothes / Visit a nursing home or hospital to spread some holiday cheer and good vibes 

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!

~And that, my friends, is worth a glass of champagne!~
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Friday, October 23, 2015

PTSD: Parents Trying to Use Smartphones (and other) Devices

We all love our mothers.  They carried us for nine months, bore us into this world, and raised us.  Even when we were nose-picking toddlers, hormonally charged teenagers, and even as we uttered things like, can-i-have-more-money, she-doesn't-want-to-be-my-friend-anymore, this-is-so-unfair, Mom-Mom-Mom-Mooommm-MMMOOOOOMMMMM! 

Dads, we love you too. The support, the encouragement, the I-know-your-Mom-is-crazy-but-we-are-gonna-do-what-she-says, and everyone's favorite, the don't-tell-Mom! moments. 

But my parents have the most fascinating relationship to technology I've ever seen. I'm sure you know what I mean.  

I am amazed that these two intelligent people whom I love so dearly and who raised two intelligent humans cannot so much as remember that text messages and emails are different entities.  They also are still walking in the land of dial-up.  They don't have dial-up of course, but vehemently believe that in order to be "online" they must go to aol.com.  I've talked with friends of mine and have discovered that smartphone/computer phenomenon is not uncommon.  

They try so hard but somehow the smartphone and computer just elude them.  They are Parents Trying to Use Smartphones (and other) Devices.  In no particular order, here are some of my favorite PTSD moments...

1.  [November in NY]  "I think I broke my phone.  I left it in the trunk and when I took it out, the icons were shivering. I think my phone was cold. I must've left it in the trunk too long"  

2.  Over the phone 300 miles away: "It says...File... Edit... View... Save... Save As... Help.... {giggles] I do need help!"  

[She read me every menu and sub-menu in MS Word, despite me telling her that wasn't necessary. This took about 20 minutes.  - Remind me again why you can't ask my brother, who is there with you and who can actually see the screen?  You know, that kid who stays in the room upstairs, who loves baseball with the buzzcut. You know, the one who LIVES WITH YOU?!]

3.  "It asked for my ______ password.  [fill in every site or application that needs a password]  I put it in but it's telling me it's not right. I know it's right." 

[Except we've had to change it every time she's forgotten it so yes, it is different. I've actually created a "Mom" and a "Dad" file where I record all of their passwords so when they call me because they forgot them I don't have to re-setup e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g]

4.  [Pondering tone of wonderment]  "My phone can't make calls, I can't check my voicemail and I can't get any pictures or take any"
"You need a new phone"
"Noo! It's totally fine, I can still get text messages. I don't need a new phone." 
 [??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?]

5.  "I want to email Wally." [Spend ten minutes showing him how to set up an email]
"What's his email address?"
"I don't know, I don't have his email address. I have his phone number"  

6.  "My phone is going to die"
"Don't worry, I have my charger" [Cable was there, but missing square plug thing for the outlet]

7.  Me: "Hello?  Hello?  Mom????"
Mom: "Jacqueline????"
Me: "Yes. Are you ok?"
Mom: "Yea. It was the strangest thing.  I called you, but another lady answered. And then she was gone and you answered"
Me: "What! How does that even happen???"
Mom:  "HA.  I don't know!{giggles}"

8.  [Inserts CD to laptop] "How do I get online so I can play the dice game?"

9.  "I put it in my favorites, but it's not there anymore."  
"That's because you put it in there like 5 years ago. The link is probably dead"
"How can it be dead? I saved it so I'd always have it"
[Many attempts to explain]
"I don't know, I guess it's just gone"
"Oh maaannn.  Ok"

10.  "You have to back up your phone before you can download the new update"
"Ok.{Pause}" 

[This means (1) She's writing down everything I'm saying to which I will get to hear her mumble my words back to herself as she writes, (2) She thinks she knows exactly what I'm saying (3) She has no idea what I'm saying but is going to let me continue on for ten minutes before asking for clarification

"Then you can make some more room on your phone for pictures and apps and stuff"
"Will I lose all my stuff?  What about my pictures, I love my pictures"
"No, they're not disappearing, it'll all just go to the cloud"
"......{Pause}....{Thinking}.... What's the cloud?"
[Sigh]

11.  "I just share it on Facebook if I want to save something.  Then I know just where to look for it.  On my page."
"Some people may not like you sharing their stuff with everyone you know."
"Oh. Whoops. Another Facebook faux-pas! But I want to save stuff..."

12.  "So if I post something on Facebook can everybody see it?"
"Only if they're friends with you" [I set up her privacy settings]
"So you can't see this thing Sally posted?"
"Nope. I'm not friends with Sally."
"But you're friends with me. And I'm friends with her."
"Yes, but I'm not friends with Sally so I can't see it"
"You should friend her, she's really nice.  Then you'd be able to see it"
"{Shakes head and lovingly chuckles}"


Parents, we love you.  Your lack of technological ability may frustrate us at times, but we love that you just keep trying.  And we've gotten some great laughs out of your inability to reconcile these dang computers and phones.  I know one day you will persevere.  (Until, of course, you forget your password again!)  

This post was all in good fun and we secretly love that you call us for help.  You've spent our whole lives helping us, it's the least we can do for you.  And let's be honest, this will be us someday too. Much love and many hugs to those who make our lives richer!

Be sure to comment and share your favorite PTSD moments! 

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Friday, September 11, 2015

Doll Wax Salon vs. The European Waxing Center

If you are a regular waxer or a newbie, check out my recs for the two best waxing salons around. 

My A-Number 1 is definitely Doll Wax. They have locations in Gambrills and Crofton with another location opening shortly in Annapolis. 


My first time going here was the most pleasant, painless waxing experience I've ever had. I used to just get waxed at my nail salon because it was cheap and easy, but my gel manis from there barely lasted a week so I was on the search for a new place for both nails and wax.  

I tried Doll Wax in Crofton for the first time yesterday and it is amazing!! I will never go anywhere else. They offer online booking, which makes scheduling quick and easy. With a confirmation call and email, you'll never miss your appointment. You can also request your favorite esthetician while booking to ensure you are satisfied. (I had Melissa, but have read that all the estheticians are wonderful.) 

The salon has many special offers and promotions, making it affordable and worthwhile. If you book your follow-up appointment within 5 weeks you get a discount. For a Brazilian it is $63 the first time and $48 thereafter if booking within 5 weeks. Also, if you check in on Yelp you can get a $13 eyebrow wax. And the deals don't end there. 

Doll Wax offers a loyalty card. After five visits you get $10 off your service. 

They also look out for the younger ladies, offering $10 brow waxes to those 17 and under between September and June. 

Another, more important reason I love Doll Wax Salon is that I am very picky about things being sanitary.  After I spent a summer working for a doctor who was obsessive about things being clean I have developed some high standards. I used to clean the step stool for the exam table (read: not one minuscule speck of dirt) with a one-sided Q-tip. I was only allowed to use 3. He was a miser. Doll Wax has absolutely no double dipping, and is completely sanitary, tossing each stick and using new muslin strips with each pull. 

The decor and atmosphere are soothing and inviting. Chandeliers float above you, large fluffy flowers sit spilling over silver vases, making you feel more like you're at someone's home than at a salon. The table is comfy (softer than most in my experience) and the room is warm, which is important if you're stripping down.  

Hershey kisses in a small bowl, sat next to me as I got waxed. Chocolate will help you forget the pain in no time. And if that doesn't work, check out the  motivational pictures on the wall ("You got this"). Honestly, though, there was hardly any pain at all. More of a tinge than an ouch for sure.  

The staff is welcoming and knowledgeable, your service is not rushed and you feel like they really enjoy what they do there.  When you enter the room, the technician explains everything to you and leaves while you undress. There is a cleansing wipe left for when you undress to freshen up before you begin, and a towel with which to cover yourself for the more "personal" procedures. You ring a crystal bell to signal you are ready and the esthetician re-appears and begins your service with a smile.

Aloe gel is put on immediately after the wax strip is pulled (very cool and soothing), and there is more soothing post-wax with the all-natural, homemade essential oil spray you apply before getting dressed to close pores and soothe the skin. There is also a warm wipe for your use to ensure all the wax has been removed. I did not experience any pain post wax at all. I've never had this happen before (probably because I used to get waxed at my nail salon).  She didn't have to tweeze at all, she took her time and everything was removed the way I wanted.  I seriously can't wait to go back. It is worth the money, and worth the drive. You can tell the focus is the customer and giving them a positive, clean, pleasant experience rather than pushing products (there was no mention of products at all actually). Thank you, Doll Wax! You should book today.  

I tried another reputable waxing salon, The European Waxing Center also. It has many locations and an online booking system. It is very sanitary, has very modern decor (think Miami - shiny white counters, frosted glass doors, red and black accent colors) and they use hard wax, not the hot wax with the muslin strips.  

The rooms look more like a doctor's office, which I liked because it told me it was sanitary but perhaps comes off a bit cold on the warm-and-fuzzy meter. Despite a great wax, the pressure from the esthetician and the front desk to buy the products was overwhelming and, in my opinion, inappropriate and unprofessional. During the whole procedure I felt like I was in a sales pitch (and I kind of was). 

That being said, the staff was very courteous and very knowledgeable. It was also very quick and pretty painless. I get they have to sell their products and make a living but I felt I was viewed more like a dollar than a patron. If you don't mind the sales pitch, try it out. Some people are good at saying no. I'm not, I walked out with $100 worth of products. Eek! 

They do have a great promotion for first-time clients: first wax is free and 20% off products. And I have to say the products are pretty awesome. I bought the exfoliating gel (can be used anywhere on your body). 

Slather it on, let sit for a second and then, rubbing in circular motions with your hands, the dead skin magically sloughs off! Very soothing gel with many vitamins and is very effective. I'm always glowing afterward. After you exfoliate, you can pamper yourself in the shower with their body wash which smells just divine. 

A little bit lathers a long way so it'll last a while, which makes my wallet feel better. Lastly, the ingrown hair serum helps prevent ingrown hairs between waxes and is rubbed on after exfoliating and waxing. 

The esthetician recommended using the exfoliate every three to four days, the body wash daily and the ingrown hair serum daily. I wish I can say I keep up with that, but with two little ones I'm just lucky to get a shower sometimes. I do my best and it gives good results nonetheless! 

If I had my way I'd go to Doll Wax for the service and buy The European Waxing Center's  products
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Monday, August 10, 2015

Kate & Tory Sales


Gotta get this post up asap. Tory Burch and Kate Spade are both having killer sales right now.  If I hadn't just dropped $200 at Sephora I would be partaking. But since I can't, you can!  Shop quickly; sizes and styles go fast.

Here are my picks from each. 

TORY BURCH
Kamila Sweater - $79, down from $225
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Persia Tunic - $99, down from $295
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Rayna Dress - $199, down from $550
Courtesy of toryburch.com

Alexa Cropped Skinny Jean - $89, down from $189
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Pierre Blazer - $199, down from $395  If I could only buy one thing from the sale, this would be it.  Can pair with almost anything, can be dressed up or down, and adds a hint of sophistication to the simplest of outfits. Not to mention, it'll keep you warm!
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Anais Grape Flower Earrings - $69, down from $195
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Tripp Metal Ring - $49, down from $95
Courtesy of toryburch.com

Aidan Two Finger Ring - $79, down from $175
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Medium Brigitte Cosmetic Case - $49, down from $85
Courtesy of toryburch.com
T Lock Color Block Tote - $249, down from $625 (eeee!!) Might be the best deal of the sale.
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Skylar Quilted Sneaker - $89, down from $125
Courtesy of toryburch.com
Fulton Bootie - $199, down from $385 I waaaant!
Courtesy of toryburch.com

KATE SPADE (I'm trying something new in the way I list items so please bear with me. The photos below should link to the item. Let me know if it doesn't. You can always click the Kate Spade link above and that will also take you to the sale so you can shop my picks.)
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